Parenting Styles
QUESTION:
I have a 14-year-old son, and we always seem to be angry with each other. I try to be patient, but whatever I do seems to annoy him and vice versa. My husband takes a different approach than me, and this also causes conflict between us as he lets our son get away with bad behaviour by ignoring it. If our son is rude to me, my husband doesn’t say anything. He just says that I should deal with it. What can I do?
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ANSWER:
I believe you have mentioned 2 issues here: (1) father uses an indulgent parenting style, and (2) husband and wife are not united and bonded on some major issues. Let s look
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Re: Indulgent parenting style Parenting style has two elements: sensitivity and strictness. Sensitivity refers to the extent to which parents provide warmth and supportiveness. Strictness refers to the extent to which parents provide supervision and discipline. Categorizing parents according to whether they are high or low on strictness and sensitivity creates four parenting styles:
Indulgent
Authoritarian
Uninvolved
Assertive
Indulgent parents are more sensitive than they are strict. Children of these parents tend to have high self-esteem, but low motivation (e.g., perform poorly at school, do few if any chores). Also, they are more likely to have behavioral problems at home and school.
Authoritarian parents are
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Uninvolved parents are low in both sensitivity and strictness. Children of these parents tend to have both low motivation and low self-esteem.
Assertive parents are both strict and sensitive. Children of these parents tend to have both high motivation and high self-esteem.
Thus, it might be in your husband s best interest to adopt a more assertive parenting style — for his son s benefit!!
Re: Not being united and bonded When mom and dad are not on
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1. One parent is forced into playing the role of the bad guy (this is probably you mom).
2. The child is always able to play one parent against the other (e.g., if he gets a no from the more assertive parent, he will go to the indulgent parent to get a yes ).
3. The child is always able to convince the indulgent parent that the more assertive parent is mistreating him.
4. Due to the above outcomes, resentment builds in the more assertive parent, thus creating tension between husband and wife.
Thus, it will be important for you and your
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